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Solitude and isolation are not the same thing.
Solitude and isolation are not the same thing.
Solitude brings balance to a life of connection.
Isolation reinforces a sense of disconnection.
In our culture, we need less isolation (i.e. more real connection) and more solitude.
A healthy life is a life of connection and voluntary solitude; not of unwanted or forced isolation born of disconnection.
The
Roseto research I wrote of earlier this week has given me so much to
contemplate. Studies around this Italian-American community in
Pennsylvania showed that their sense of community and connection was the
primary factor in living a long, healthy life. They took care of their
elders, multi-generations lived with or in close proximity to each
other, and everyone looked out for one another so no one felt alone or
isolated. The bottom line ~ connection is good for us in every way.
Of course connecting and outreach always
need to be balanced with solitude. Yet within in the scope of an
integrated life, solitude reinforces connection not separation. Isn't it
ironic that moments spent voluntarily alone actually help us feel more
connected to each other.
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