Intimacy is honesty

What could be more intimate than honesty, even if the content isn't what your ego wants to hear?

Community bs Competition

A stereotypical woman criticizes and competes with other women; a whole-souled woman builds community with other women.

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Whole-Souled Woman

The whole-souled woman is whole.
She is vibrant, she is delighted, she appreciates, she loves with abandon, she embraces pleasure, she radiates wellbeing.

She takes it easy.
She attracts - she doesn't hunt.
She loves the challenge of contrast.
She feels her worthiness in every cell of her body.

She is secure. She is stable.
She is in a love affair with life.
She allows herself to taste the deliciousness of each moment.
She cherishes each of her desires as her firstborn.

She gives 10 percent of her focus to what is and 90 percent to what is becoming.

She has mastery over her thoughts - moment by moment she chooses thoughts becoming of her worthiness.

Her relationships with men are juicy, adventurous, fun, intimate, and deep - reflecting her relationship with herself.

The whole-souled woman loves her body.
She feels good in her body.
She moves with ease, power, and conscious awareness of her beauty.

She is worthy, but never entitled. She accepts with grace all that is given to her and floods the giver with genuine, heartfelt thanks.

Suffering, guilt, and self-sacrifice consistently dissolve in the realization of her capacity for pleasure and delight, joy and self-generosity.

She breathes deeply.
She meditates.
She closes her eyes often to tune to her essence.

The whole-souled woman is satisfied - filled to the brim and overflowing. Radiating positive energy on everyone she sees - constantly looking for things to appreciate rather than to complain about.

The whole-souled woman loves her sexuality.
She lets it flow in a way that's just right for her -
sometimes in dancing and moving her body; other times in feeling the air on her skin or eating her food with sensual delight; sometimes in intimate union with her lover.
She has access to endless ways in which to allow her sexuality to express itself. And she delights in all of them.

The whole-souled woman no longer strives for perfection, she seeks enjoyment in the moment.

While she may accomplish much, accomplishment is never her goal, savoring the richness of every experience is what captivates her.

She embraces being authentic over getting it right or pleasing the peanut gallery.

So in love with herself she is that she loves others like never before.

So convinced of her own value she is that she values others without compare.

She has no time for clinging to things as they are.
Rather she is eager to allow more.

The whole-souled woman loves other women.
She respects other women, holds them in high esteem, delights in and celebrates their beauty.

She knows the path of least resistance.
She spends no time trying to convince or change others.
She simply chooses the path and the company that resonates and allows everything and everyone else to fall away.

She uses contrast to climb higher.
She doesn't whine about what is, she relishes in what is becoming for she knows beyond doubt the realness of things not yet seen.

The whole-souled woman is a conjurer of reality,
not a passive observer of reality.

She is balanced, grounded, sexy, confident, powerful, tender-hearted, strong, and sure.

She is Wonder Woman,
Joan of Arc
Mother Teresa
Mary Magdalene
Maya Angelou
Cleopatra
Catherine the Great
and many others.

And most assuredly the whole-souled woman is me and you.

Don't be a stereotype

You can't blame men
You can't blame your mother
You can't blame society or your hormones and ever be the woman you know you came here to be.

#wholesouledwoman

Satisfaction is satisfying

When satisfaction is my point of attraction, all that flows in is satisfying.

Satisfaction is a frequency. It's a state of being (not doing or getting) that exists within you. All you have to do is plug in to it. Most of us get trained away from our innate satisfaction early on as we are taught to seek approval outside of ourselves mainly from adults who are disconnected from their satisfaction. We start trying to amass accomplishments, entertainment, relationships, and stuff to get satisfied which only perpetuates the disconnect. Reconnecting can happen in the twinkle of an eye as you tune inward and FEEL for it. When you touch upon it you will feel relief and even a visceral response in your belly or heart. With practice, you will sustain the connection for longer and longer periods until satisfaction is where you're living out from not something you're trying to get to. Your whole life will orchestrate around that frequency and all that you attract will feel satisfying.

Innate Worthiness

The world's view is skewed on all subjects
Don't buy it
Train yourself to turn inward
Seek and find all that you are
Reconnect with the  knowing that
You don't earn worthiness
You are worthy
The only way out is in

www.embodyouressence.com

Seek first the feeling of worthiness and all the things that you think will make you worthy will be added to you.

#youareworthy

Connection vs Attachment

Your physical identity is a wave on the ocean of life.

Everyone you meet is also a wave arising from the same ocean.

What you perceive of each other through the physical senses is temporary - a cresting and falling manifestation; and yet never for one instant disconnected from the ocean that sends it forth.

One wave you encounter as parent, another as sibling, another as friend, lover, acquaintance, passing stranger, etc.

However seemingly significant or insignificant the encounter, there is eternal momentum behind each and every connection before you become conscious of it in a physical form.

Even while it appears that your physical body over there is looking at my physical body over here, there is a non-physical but very real thread of connection that holds us together.

You have a built-in knowing of this.

When you shift your focus from the outward to the inward, you begin to reawaken this awareness and to feel the tangible here-and-now-reality of your connection with everyone and everything - including those waves who have dissolved back into the ocean that binds the connection.

The more aware you are moment-to-moment of your connection to the Ocean, the less likely you are to cling to the waves.

Your conscious awareness of connection then frees you from the enslaving habit of attachment.

If ever there was liberation, this is it.